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February 2, 2026

I’ll get back to you

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Oh, Thanksgiving weekend… the food, the booze, the sports, the re-connecting with old friends. Like Murphy Konowitz, I was excited to see my best friend and have a night out together. However, unlike Murphy, I enjoyed meeting my friend’s new friends and significant others and did not start a fight on my favorite night. Murphy is visibly mad and somehow fight with best friend leads to meet cute with pretty girl? After running into each other in the bathroom, Ellie Meyers and Murphy reconnect and plan a fake dating scheme. The quick timing threw me off, limiting my ability to buy the chemistry between these two. I did enjoy Murphy’s salt-of-the-earth friendship with Kat. There was genuine love among friends here, and I found it touching that they were able to support each other even in the midst of a disagreement. I enjoyed seeing the friendship through multiple other characters’ eyes and felt it was a clever way to indicate how precious female friendship can be! Grischow did an excellent job capturing the feelings and jealousy of seeing your friends figure out their lives and college plans while you remain stuck. While I struggled to connect with Murphy, I appreciated her struggles in community college and and the implications that you don’t necessarily need a degree to be successful. My second gripe is the classification of this book. Is this YA? Is this new adult? The one spicy scene was mostly faded to black (and spoiler at 94%), so it felt unnecessary at that point. I think anyone in college would appreciate the complexity of managing high school nostalgia and being open to something new. The characters felt immature (communication was lacking), but I think it worked if you reminded yourself they were 21, which confirms my belief I am not their intended audience. Overall, I felt okay about reading this. It would be a great read if I were younger, and I would encourage college-aged readers to give it a try
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Oh, Thanksgiving weekend… the food, the booze, the sports, the re-connecting with old friends. Like Murphy Konowitz, I was excited to see my best friend and have a night out together. However, unlike Murphy, I enjoyed meeting my friend’s new friends and significant others and did not start a fight on my favorite night. Murphy is visibly mad and somehow fight with best friend leads to meet cute with pretty girl?

After running into each other in the bathroom, Ellie Meyers and Murphy reconnect and plan a fake dating scheme. The quick timing threw me off, limiting my ability to buy the chemistry between these two.

I did enjoy Murphy’s salt-of-the-earth friendship with Kat. There was genuine love among friends here, and I found it touching that they were able to support each other even in the midst of a disagreement. I enjoyed seeing the friendship through multiple other characters’ eyes and felt it was a clever way to indicate how precious female friendship can be!

Grischow did an excellent job capturing the feelings and jealousy of seeing your friends figure out their lives and college plans while you remain stuck. While I struggled to connect with Murphy, I appreciated her struggles in community college and and the implications that you don’t necessarily need a degree to be successful.

My second gripe is the classification of this book. Is this YA? Is this new adult? The one spicy scene was mostly faded to black (and spoiler at 94%), so it felt unnecessary at that point. I think anyone in college would appreciate the complexity of managing high school nostalgia and being open to something new. The characters felt immature (communication was lacking), but I think it worked if you reminded yourself they were 21, which confirms my belief I am not their intended audience.

Overall, I felt okay about reading this. It would be a great read if I were younger, and I would encourage college-aged readers to give it a try

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